Why to live with Pan?
Because Pan is a Magician.

One magic that he does is this: whenever I expose to him my troubles, my fears, I see these inner monsters becoming ridiculous dwarves. And the best is to expose them in front of all the friends, so that we can laugh at them all together. If I (or whosoever exposes) can't laugh... well, too bad. Then I have something to work on.
Now you can think that this is nothing special: many people can ridiculize your problems, even when you don't ask for it. This I don't doubt.

Pan does another similar magic. He can take whatsoever I find valuable or I'm proud of, and make these standpoints as ridiculous and meaningless as the troubles mentioned before. And again: if I can't laugh on it...
Now you can think that it's very easy to find some bastard around you that will enjoy in doing the same, especially when you don't ask for it. This also I don't doubt.

But the biggest magic is that, if I don't react and close my feeling ability, I will feel that, while all this happens (and also in every other situation), Pan's vibration is constantly of love, care, compassion, easiness.

Do you know anybody that does the same? If yes: please, let me doubt this.

And, if it is really so, you have found the most precious treasure.